I've got a MBPr and its worse than your situation. Reinstalled 3 times to see if it helps. So when it suspends and i open it up very soon afterwards i just get a blank screen for 30-40 seconds. I've learned to wait but sometimes you have to press keys to get it to wake up. Sometimes you press the power button. Then as you type your password it suspends again.
All because they don't want a sodding LED on the machine