Straight White Male: The Lowest Difficulty Setting There Is
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Not much room for disagreeing with his summation now is there.
If you're gay from a poor family in Alabama, you got it tough.
If you're gay from an upper middle class family in, say, New York, you can use it to your advantage.
Seinfeld as evidence: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kb72AJDFAjE