Well, think of it this way. Characters are artificial constructs, and even much more artificial (with only thousands of years of history): there are still languages in this world without a writing system, and they're doing fine. (Well, maybe not
fine, but that's more to do with the influence of more powerful languages than lack of writing.)
However, no serious NLP researcher would suggest building a text-to-speech system by getting rid of the middle OCR layer and just hooking the raw image directly to the expected sound. (Well, at least I think so, but I'd be glad to know if I'm wrong.)
Phonemes are absolutely imposed on human babies. Sure, they wouldn't know the word "phoneme", but that doesn't make the concept any less real. Imagine how a typical education on reading/writing would start like: "This is G. It is used for words like grass, game, and girl. Actually, it can also be used for gem or genie!"
Can you imagine an English-speaking child listening to this and not immediately understanding that there are two distinct sounds involved, that the first sounds for "grass", "game", and "girl" are somehow the same (even though the waveforms are different), and that this sound is somehow different from that of "gem" or "genie"? If a child doesn't understand it, then the child probably needs a speech therapy.