10,000 Hours with Reid Hoffman: What I Learned
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Plus, successful people themselves start looking for the "why" only after the fact - and most often don't realize to what degree most of it was about being at the right place at the right time, not really about their "super power".
But I get it, this is how you sell books, for whatever they're worth.
In other words:
Ever met someone who wrote a book "These are my super powers that will make me rich in a couple of years - Just watch me"? No, you haven't - because nobody can tell in advance, even if they know exactly all they're strengths.
Hehe
Anyway people who are kicking ass are too busy doing it to write a book on how they are doing it. And anyway few would read their book unless they succeeded. So they write it later and with help.
The closest I can think of is Rework by 37signals.
Its called Survival Bias!
> When there’s a complex list of pros and cons driving a potentially expensive action, Reid seeks a single decisive reason to go for it—not a blended reason. For example, we were once discussing whether it’d make sense for him to travel to China. There was the LinkedIn expansion activity in China; some fun intellectual events happening; the launch of The Start-Up of You in Chinese. A variety of possible good reasons to go, but none justified a trip in and of itself. He said, “There needs to be one decisive reason. And then the worthiness of the trip needs to be measured against that one reason. If I go, then we can backfill into the schedule all the other secondary activities. But if I go for a blended reason, I’ll almost surely come back and feel like it was a waste a time.”
[0] http://marknugent.tumblr.com/post/98203319356/linkedins-evil... [1] https://gigaom.com/2013/09/21/linkedin-is-breaking-into-user...
This is a very powerful point and I think one that most people, myself included, never really think of.
His company has a complete opposite reputation: Pushy, spammy and invasive.
I like the values model in Patrick Lencioni's The Advantage and think the upside-downside model could be effectively combined with them. http://thesummitblog.blogspot.com/2012/08/what-you-hope-to-b...
On a lighter note:
Many of the super successful class think they are “over it” in terms of receiving praise and awards. Reid explained that Paul, now a legend in the industry, has this self-conception. Compliments do nothing for him anymore, Paul says; he’s heard enough nice things in his life about his intelligence. Begin to flatter him and he’ll say, “Oh stop, you don’t need to say those nice things about me. Come on–we’re peers!” Actually, Paul is deceiving himself. Paul expects people to kiss his ring. Paul expects some amount of deference or due recognition of his superior status before he’s ready to partner with a lower status professional.
Surely this is about Peter Thiel. :)
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> 2. The best way to get a powerful person’s attention: offer to help them.
This is entirely consistent with what Sheryl Sandberg said at HBS's commencement in 2012. [1]
"When I was first at Facebook, a woman named Lori Goler, a 1997 graduate of HBS, was working in marketing at eBay and I knew her kind of socially. And she called me and said, I want to talk with you about coming to work with you at Facebook. So I thought about calling you, she said, and telling you all the things I’m good at and all the things I like to do. But I figured that everyone is doing that. So instead I want to know what’s your biggest problem and how can I solve it. My jaw hit the floor. I’d hired thousands of people up to that point in my career, but no one had ever said anything like that. I had never said anything like that. Job searches are always about the job searcher, but not in Laurie’s case. I said, you’re hired. My biggest problem is recruiting and you can solve it."
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> "At PayPal, one cultural trait was: “Let the best idea win.” No answer or idea at PayPal would be taken at face value. Instead, the idea’s proprietor had to argue vigorously and withstand critiques from colleagues. The upside: analytical rigor tends to produce better ideas than “this is the way it’s always been done” or “the CEO said so.” The downside: a confrontational interpersonal culture can stress relationships at work and undermine possible collaboration. Moreover, this cultural undercurrent was effectively “anti-experience”: it was a harder place for experienced people to operate because they had to re-prove themselves.""
This reminds me of Julie Zhuo's writing about design being intentional and purposeful. [2]
[1] http://www.businessinsider.com/sheryl-sandbergs-full-hbs-spe...
[2] https://medium.com/the-year-of-the-looking-glass/build-a-tru...
Can confirm (PayPal employee here). That being said, the "senior" people that can't re-prove (or prove, for that matter) themselves aren't let go; they just end up working on projects similar to what the recent college grads take up.