@webwright: I am a hacker, project manager and biz guy, and I suck at design.
@dfens: Essentially, online shopping lists with some cool algorithms suggesting when you might need what (I notice you haven't bought milk in 2 weeks, would you like to add it to your shopping list?) + suggestions + sms capability (both requests and receipts of your latest shopping lists) + more features tbd. I have a core set of features that I as a user would like to see, after that point, its whatever makes sense.
I welcome more questions and more discussion. You can either post here or email me at my lame hotmail account.
You'll have a lot better luck finding people if you talk a little bit about yourself and what you're up to. Keeping your idea secret is less valuable than you think, while the value of finding a good cofounder is beyond measure. Good luck!
I know one successful fellow who used no paperwork or contract at all and everything worked out well (so far), but the "real founder" (who's name was on everything) could've easily taken him to the cleaners.
Generally, I think you should avoid founding companies with people you think are going to rip you off. That's not to say that you shouldn't have proper paperwork.
I trust my friend. But I've also seen money do strange things to people, and was wondering what the options are.
Thanks.
Good luck with your search though.