If you wish to have higher disk speeds, but not use backups, we recommend for you to remount your disk with journaling. https://www.freebsd.org/doc/en/articles/gjournal-desktop/con...
The parent link to gjournal is weird too, since gjournal is not the same as softupdates w/journaling (SU+J). It makes me wonder if they actually disabled softupdates too.
I found a random post[1] about issues (unmapped io?) running i386 freebsd with su+j in virtualbox (apparently a virtualbox bug[2]).
[1]: https://forums.freebsd.org/threads/freebsd-10-i386-data-corr...
[2]: https://lists.freebsd.org/pipermail/freebsd-current/2013-Nov...
What else has DO disabled and/or modified from a vanilla install?
Shouldn't this make it much faster as the FS no longer maintains a journal?
console="vidconsole,comconsole" autoboot_delay="10" console="comconsole,vidconsole" autoboot_delay="1"
Second console actually disables access from web console access, which is fatal.
Autoboot is not critical, although default to 3 sec should work much better for opportunity to change boot options from web console.
DO have screwed something up with their configuration if they need to make so many changes to make it work. No other VPS provider I have used that support FreeBSD (or OpenBSD for that matter) require any changes to the default install.