Inside a Chinese Test-Prep Factory
nytimes.com
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It seems like a really awful way to grow up.
Another factor is that a lot of parents in China either experienced significant material deprivation themselves, or are one generation away from people who did. So to these parents "success" through wealth (and hence security from poverty) takes on disproportionate importance. This sort of dynamic can also be seen in a lot of first-generation Asian-American households, often to the detriment of the relationship between the parents and their children.
Perhaps the parents who were interviewed for the article overstated the difference, but here in Canada the situation is a bit different for a couple of reasons. First, we send so many students to college that getting into and through the less prestigious colleges isn't particularly impressive. Second, the jobs available to those who couldn't quite make it into college are still pretty good. Electricians, mechanics, locksmiths, and paralegals don't come cheap around here. So there's a lot less pressure all around.
And perhaps beyond that that the economy is such that many degrees from less selective schools are worthless regardless of how much a student learns to earn it?
Learn how to read and think first. Then perform the college ritual and learn the secret handshake if it gets you want.
Prestigious schools are desirable explicitly because most other people were rejected by them.
Look at similar test-prep crap going on in the states. It is very easy for a california resident to get into a community college or a state university like San Jose state, San Diego State, etc. It is even easy to get into UC Merced, UC Irvine, etc.
Who are happy to send their kids to community colleges and state universities in California? The kids of those who work in the service sector. Like hispanics, african americans, etc. Esp those who did not go to college are happy to see their kids at community college or state schools.
If you look at folks who work for tech companies in the silicon valley, you see a different pattern: these parents want to send their kids to HYP (harvard, yale, princeton), S(stanford), etc. And these parents don't want their kids to become worker-bees (also known as engineers); they want them to succeed (of course, financially).
What is financial success in the states? How many of valley engineers have succeeded financially? Most of them end up with nothing after mortgages, day care, 2 hours commute, etc. So, they look at those who have made it. Usually, it is in finance and law; even here, we have to be selective: the local branch manager at Bank of America is called VP, but without any financial rewards. So, it boils down to jobs in PE (private equity firms like KKR, Blackstone), HF (Hedge funds like the defunct SAC), IB (Investment banks, esp blue chip ones like Goldman Sachs), etc. To get jobs in these elite companies, a normal person (those without wealth or prior connections) can try to get there via HYP undergrad, or HS business schools, HYS law schools. Many parents, if given a chance, will try to push their kids there: if the kid is not doing well, they can't push him that much.
Just go to collegeconfidential.com and see what American kinds are after. They are just playing like the chinese kids: extra curriculars, well-roundedness, sports, (fake) volunteering. If they get admitted to HYP, then they look for ways to get top grades: buy note prepared by earlier students or take easy courses.
I knew a girl who went to UC Irvine. ANd she wanted to get into one of HYS (hardvard, yale, stanford) law schools. She got a nice LSAT score. Yet she took one year off, went to India to work for some NGO there, only to boost her chances of getting into top schools.
There are loads of blue collar skilled trades jobs which pay decent middle class wages. Those jobs are also not going to be sent anywhere. Not everyone needs to be a senior director.
Pretty much the only questions you find are inane essay tasks.