- Talk to people you like.
- Call them, message them, and get them to do stuff with you.
- Repeat.
But in all seriousness, being a good friend and making friends is easy! Just be willing to put yourself out there and initiate!
When I was younger, I never really understood how this stuff worked: I would isolate myself from everyone, and somehow feel 'lonely'.
Over the past 5 or 6 years I realized that if you want a real connection with someone, just go for it! Be friendly! Say hi! Invite people out to do stuff with you (go to a meetup, grab coffee, tag along on a trip -- whatever).
It's a little scary at first (everything is), but it's honestly great!
I'm not sure if you're in the bay area at all, but if you are, and want a friend, feel free to hit me up. I'm a nice guy and would be happy to hang out -- can never have enough friends =)
I'm r@rdegges.com on google chat and my phone number is 818-217-9229.
-Randall