Too hard for nothing huh? Wish it was hard for more things? ;)
Double negatives aside, I tend to agree with you. I haven't done much frontend programming, but am about to undertake a medium sized project architected as a single page webapp. So my perspeftive in evaluating these frameworks is one of a fairly experienced non-frontend programmer. I can learn one easily, it's just a question of which I want to learn.
I looked at Angular and I really like the composability of directives. It seems like frontend frameworks have been maturing along a trend of composability. First jquery was popular because it eased the pain of manipulating individual elements of the DOM, then backbone was (and still is) popular because it introduced reactive components at a time when server side JS was growing in popularity, so it was a natural fit. Recently, angular grew in popularity for the same reactive advantages. There's something really attractive about the idea of cleanly separated code for each physical element/region on a page. That's why people liked directives, and angular was definitely onto something.
However, it seems like React accomplishes all of the same feats as angular, and offers the same advantages, but does it in a much cleaner fashion. JSX is far more intuitive than the Angular directive syntax, yet maintains all the composability advantages. It also has a natural place in a full stack arxhitecture if you choose to drink the look aid and implement a flux-like design. To me, React seems like the next step in the evolution of reactive frontend frameworks. Angular is the homo erectus to React's homo sapiens. :)
If you're starting a new project now, it seems to make far more sense to go with react over angular, especially if you're primarily interested in the east composability patterns. Also, the momentum in developer communities is clearly trending toward React, especially with the recent changes announced for Angular, and the continually improving support of react.
I was also introduced to Pete Hunt, core contributor to react, a few years ago. He was smart as hell and honestly that's enough of a reason for me to prefer React over Angular.