For the record, I am happily married with no kids.
Just to be clear, both of those things are choices one makes, not excuses to be made.
Just to be clear, both of those things are choices one makes, not excuses to be made.
I still disagree with the assertion that "how many friends you do or don't have is entirely up to you". It may be true in some extremely narrow sense, but if it came down to it how many people would give up the spouse they love because they were the problem, or their children because they were, or drop everything and move to where people were more similar to themselves?