The city annoys the shit outta me, but it's a fun place to visit sometimes.
The city annoys the shit outta me, but it's a fun place to visit sometimes.
Restaurantwise, there's a few good ones, but not really enough to satisfy your every whim. Barwise, once you've removed all the really unsafe ones you've got just a handful left, scattered among Oakland's three or four safe neighbourhoods and separated by miles of "don't go here at night".
The weather is better (slightly) and the rent is cheaper (much) though.
I strongly disagree with your assessment of restaurants in Oakland. Oakland has a lot of amazing eateries, including many of what are regarded as the "top 50" of the bay area.
Piedmont Ave, Lakeshore, Uptown, Jack London, Oldtown, Rockridge, Temescal and Lake Merritt are all fantastic neighborhoods for eating (and shopping too). They're all close to each other (walking distance), relatively safe and just generally cool places to hang out.
I've been an East Bay resident for a long time and, before getting to know the city better, most of my experience was based on the bad press I had heard.
If you spend some time exploring some of the cities gems I think you'll be very surprised. I was.
Combined with San Francisco, Berkeley, there are far more things to do than I can make it to.
Ultimately, of course, being content is not about finding more fun things. It's about finding more things fun.