Yes, I ignored the bell curve due to the nature of the site - should have made that clear.
There's not much point even taking that into account for a read-only affair like SO at such a small scale because the cache is doing the work here and that won't sweat even under 100 or 500 reqs/sec.
Anyways, you point out correctly that discussing scaling-issues is rather fruitless without taking all variables into account. I was just trying to say that "SO (in particular) is handling 1mio reqs/day" does not tell much about the performance of the underlying stack.