TechEmpower uses Unicorn because it's the fastest MRI based rack server solution.
In JRuby, you have a few more high performance options, and Torquebox 4 is nearly as fast as Go in Hello World.
That being said, the only benchmark that matters is how your app performs on your tech stack. Anyone can write a slow DB query that ruins performance.
I imagine that that issue is highly overrated for most companies.
"web latency research user conversion rate" on google will turn up a ton.
Heck, back in 2004, ten years ago, you only got two seconds: http://cba.unl.edu/research/articles/548/download.pdf
Now 1 second http://www.australianscience.com.au/research/google/34439.pd...
Even that causes losses: http://www.tagman.com/mdp-blog/2012/03/just-one-second-delay...
Google sees significant effects at 200ms: http://googleresearch.blogspot.com/2009/06/speed-matters.htm...
blah blah blah.
Feel free to find things that say the opposite, i've never seen a study that says "users will choose the slower service, if it's 'better', they just don't give a crap".
And sure there is a diminishing return, but if your latency times are 1s or greater for a web based service, you are almost 100% guaranteed to be losing users/conversions/etc.
People have already demonstrated how Go can be used on the server: http://blog.iron.io/2013/03/how-we-went-from-30-servers-to-2...
At best one can conclude that concerns about performance aren't as important as other considerations which make Rails/Django more attractive. My opinion is that these other considerations are more along the lines of cost of labor and ease of learning than anything else.
Joel Spolsky mentioned how StackOverflow only needed 3 servers to run it for a really long time, because it was coded in a compiled language. [1]