“You're a Dbag.” How Negative Feedback Dramatically Improves Your Personality

This is a weird article, because you're talking about the importance of negative feedback to improve your personality, but then you just brush off the negative feedback you got:

> The feedback from the Bold Italic article is NOT helpful…those guys are just a bunch of jerks.

Did you, in fact, stop to consider why you come off like a d-bag in that article? Or how being less of a d-bag (or at least disguising it better?) might improve your personality?

I'm trying not to be an asshole here, but how about some self-reflection?