That said, I was pushing students to use learning strategies that I have personally found to be incredibly valuable. I firmly believe that it is a good thing to read ahead before class, pay close attention during class, ask questions promptly and follow a regular review schedule later. This is both effective and takes surprisingly little time to do.
On a final note, I sympathize with your pain about not being rewarded for your teaching. The academic system rewards professors for research, not teaching, and teaching suffers greatly for it. Why the Professor Can't Teach is as relevant today as it was when it was 30 years ago. (You can find it online at http://www.marco-learningsystems.com/pages/kline/prof.html.) That was not the reason that I left academia, but it made my decision easier.