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I was driving to work this morning, and noticed a young lady walking along, obviously going somewhere. There didn't seem anywhere obvious to be going that was really close - I figured she had about a five minute walk ahead of her, at least.
And it was blatting down.
She was getting quite wet, and I thought - if that were me, I'd like to be offered a ride.
But I couldn't stop and offer one, because no doubt I'd get a look that asked what rock I'd crawled out from under, and what kind of a pervert I really was, and did I really think she was stupid enough to get into a car with someone she didn't know, even if she was getting half-drowned and would prefer to ride.
But I figured she didn't know me, so even if she thought I was demented, and even if she refused point blank, nothing would be lost. So I stopped and offered a ride to a perfect stranger who was getting very wet. Those who know me will know that it's the sort of thing I would do.
What I didn't realise was quite how much vitriol could be inserted into what might otherwise be a polite declining of a simple offer to help.
I won't do that again.
Shame, really.
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So here's the idea. A web site where people can register, then if they accept or offer a ride they can send a photo of the other person. Then when the ride is complete, send a "transaction closed" message.
Then both parties have a stake in making sure the ride ends safely and happily. If someone were registered with the site I'd offer them a ride. I can think of ways to make the security issues work, and suddenly hitch-hiking might come back into vogue, even if only among geeks.
Hmm. Business opportunity?
However, I would have done so with kind words and a smile - and I would have spent the rest of the day thinking what a nice chap you are. :)
Not that it helps you at all, I guess.
Maybe something to add to:
I suggest you simply haven't (yet!) had a bad experience, and I think you're possibly unqualified to suggest they never happen.