There are plenty of viable alternatives: s6, runit, OpenRC, and so on. I'm not really convinced uselessd is a viable alternative - it keeps way too much of the badness of systemd, but I guess that makes it viable if you were willing to consider systemd to begin with.

A much better solution for the problem of user-facing applications (e.g. "desktop environment" software) depending on systemd's public dbus interfaces is to provide a fake service that gives them fake data - the same way you would sandbox Android apps for privacy by giving them a fake Contacts list, etc.

As for the other main "public interface" of systemd that things are starting to depend on, the systemd service file format, it would be easy to add support for this file format to any other process supervision system.