Your comments are very reasonable, but I would caution against reading much in to the current state of open source offerings. I've tried different approaches to resolving the networking side myself and concluded that there is no one true solution here and therefore it must be left out of service scope (ie. abstracted adequately).
This is particularly the case if portability is required, because different business-level requirements call for different service and infrastructure topologies utilizing different technologies, not all of which actually support any single approach. Think hypervisor-based VMs, containers, bare-metal clusters, etc.
Therefore I believe that solutions like docker and kubernetes are - given present architecture as I understand them - critically misaligned, in that they do not go far enough to abstract some target infrastructure related questions away from services. To do so would require reshuffling their APIs significantly and is thus unlikely to spontaneously occur in the near-term without concerted effort.
More recent iterations of the approach I have been taking assume that hypervisors, containers, jails, JVM guests or embedded systems firmware (eg. Android) should all be conceptually in-scope at the level of service authors. When considering the target deployment environment, networking is optionally in scope, and then only optionally TCP/IP. Given this redefined perspective, I believe that if a minimalist, process-oriented solution developed to facilitate the SaaS/unix SOA market is not robust enough to serve at least this range of alternative development trajectories, then in my view it is probably making invalid assumptions somewhere along the line. Of course, providing so general a tool usefully and without irritating developers or throwing up barriers to adoption is a real challenge.