For what it's worth, I have had a similar experience.
One time I expressed a personal opinion on G+ about something I don't like about Go personally. A Go fan re-shared this in the Go community and it turned into a debate. https://plus.google.com/+RalphCorderoy/posts/ZfaM1a21tyW
People argued that my concern was theoretical and would not happen in practice.
Then, by chance, someone wrote a totally unrelated blog article about their actual experiences writing Go. The article was overall positive about Go, but among their list of dislikes from using it in practice was exactly the concern I had voiced.
I posted this to the thread and the response I got was: "When I read that, he didn't give an example of it coming up. Again, it seems purely hypothetical."
Apparently a person writing about their experiences who says "There are a few things about Go that I'm not super happy about, and that tend to bite me from time to time," and then talking about problem X, is not enough evidence that X actually happens.
I took from this experience that, at the very least, there is a strong bias against admitting problems.