Ask HN: I love a girl and i cant help it
There is a girl sitting next to me. i am actually in love with her. i feel so helpless. what to do ...i wish for a lot of things. i know she has a boyfriend but i love her like anything.
How come she is sitting next to you? Is this work? class? If she has a choice and chooses to sit next to you, then maybe she fancies you too. Just talk to her about something in common, anything - break the ice. Take it from there. Don't try to rush first base, if it's meant to be you'll waltz together.
As someone who's batted above and below his league, trust me when I say that being yourself is the only way to lasting commitment/happiness.
On the other hand, if you want to get laid, play the game.
I've tried both paths. The key has always been to be seem genuine.