The Anti-Facebook
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The thing that surprised me most is how publicly abrasive people can be when they're using their Real Names with real photos and real descriptions of their children and pets just a click away, talking to people who live just down the street.
There's a big hubbub in my 'hood about some homeowners who want to rebuild our community pool, a multi-million dollar project. Vast majority of the neighbourhood doesn't care one way or the other, but they don't want their HOA fees to increase.
Had it not been for Nextdoor, the loud minority would have quietly passed the bill and started construction because nobody attends the community meetings or bothered to vote. Except, Nextdoor started taking off in our area just at the right time and a bunch of people flipped out when they found out about this through various threads on Nextdoor.
There was namecalling, sarcasm, pedantry, even classic trolling (people taking positions that they clearly don't care about just to upset the original poster). Almost Youtube-comment level stuff. Even weirder, most of our neighbours are middle-aged or older. They didn't grow up with this kind of online behaviour and had trouble recognizing it.
Clearly the behaviour of these people is not Nextdoor's fault. I am grateful that Nextdoor is there partly for passively observing the drama in my community and partly for actually feeling like I'm getting to know the people I run into when I walk my dog.
Coming away from working at Google during the peak of the Real Name controversy, it's weird to see the benefit premise explicitly shaken, if not refuted.
Unless you have a dedicated moderator of a debate, one who everyone agrees is the moderator, the floodgates are open and the tone of the discussion can go in any direction. This is especially true when the consequences of the debate can mean a new pool is or isn't built at whatever cost down the road from where we live. "Friendship" among the participants won't stop someone speaking out against such things if they feel strongly about it.
I first got online in 1994 or so with local BBS, which turn out to be fantastic ways to put your toes in the online water... they're just gone now, and I'm actually sort of grateful. So I've had twenty years of posting with text to learn how to do it, and what to do, and what not to do.
One of the things that watching Facebook has reminded me of (even though only my wife has the account) is that knowing how to socially interact online is a skill, and it can be a brutal thing when certain personality types get exposed to it for the first time. My wife is skilled enough that she has not gotten caught in any crossfire, but we've seen friendships die. I'm sure others here could post stories of marriages ended on Facebook.
Don't be afraid to educate your non-online friends a bit, if they'll have it... you can save them a lot of grief.
And this sounds like a network even more likely to pick up network newbies than Facebook itself. That's going to be... interesting.
So far my neighborhood is pretty quiet. About 50-odd users. It's entertaining, though. There's this one guy who posts weird survivalist rants and doomsday scenarios about The Big One, and how we're not sufficiently prepared for it. (Probably true, I hate to say.) There's a woman breeding puppies in her apartment and offering them for sale. There's a guy using the site to promote his political blog. There's a guy playing True Detective, tracking all of the car break-ins in the neighborhood, and looking for a "pattern" and "the perp's signature" in the items left on the scenes. I kind of dig it all. Seeing the eccentricity on display adds a smidgeon of big-city atmosphere that I've always felt SF was lacking in comparison to other cities I've lived in.
I hope the network comes into its own, and that we get more people in my neighborhood on board. In the meantime, I'm enjoying the strangeness of my early adopter cohort.
Does a HOA provide garbage removal, street maintenance, etc?
The cynical answer is that HOAs are legal fictions set up to shelter building developers from the financial burdens and liabilities of having to pay for, or be on the hook for, any of those services or maintenance needs. HOAs are the greatest invention in favor of real estate developers since the timeshare.
Where I live the HOA board only gets to decide on the 'small stuff' (for big purchases like said Pool renewal above they still need a majority vote.) I try to 'activate' HOA members (everyone that contributes) and remember them that a HOA is made up of its members in the end. If you don't like anything about it you should either talk with your HOA representative / board member AND/OR contribute by opting to become a board member yourself.
Source: I'm one of the five HOA board members in our small (60apt) apartment building.
Some HOAs operate by pretty weak by-laws, and can only decide trivial things. Others have obnoxious levels of control.
Typically an HOA board consists of community members or home owners (if that's the type of development), and sometimes a company that either developed (and owns) the neighborhood or one that manages it will have seats.
Some HOA boards are easy to toss out, others are not.
The vast potential variances make it important to try to get to know more about the HOA ahead of time if you're thinking about moving into a development with such.
The sale of the residence includes (and requires) contracting with the HOA.
> probably some obscure law
No need for laws, you've signed a contract.
So why in the hell would you sign that sort of deal in the first place? Well, if you don't have to, you shouldn't. But in some cities, such as SF, it's extremely hard to buy a condo that doesn't come with an HOA.
HOAs are as prevalent as they are because in most cases they are highly beneficial, both legally and financially, to building or subdivision developers. So more and more developers are using them.
You buy from the developer or the previous owner.
> And surely if you own them, they have no legal right to tell you want to do unless it breaks the law?
Membership to the HOA is required by and included into the building sale, contracts are binding.
[0] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covenant_%28law%29#Covenants_re...
[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covenant_%28law%29#Covenants_in...
Sadly, I think any time you have amateurs involved with administration and decision making, you cop the resulting amateur politics and it can quickly make the process miserable.
I wonder if somehow anonymising the process and removing personalities could even help? Leave it purely about the issues, funds and votes?
Like many bureaucracies, they survived the obsolescence of their original purpose. They provide little beyond (sometimes) a way to arbitrate homeowner disputes.
http://depts.washington.edu/civilr/covenants.htm
> They have zero say about who can and cannot live in a given area.
Because they've been barred to by the Fair Housing Act of 1968.
Fair warning: based on the tone of this guy's dispatches, I'd say there's an outside chance he is the car thief. The plot thickens.
Most Americans, at least in the past, would be throwing out bank statements in their trash every month (now a lot of it would be digital of course). If you wanted to steal bank details, I suspect that would be the way to do it rather than trying to time the mail and risk getting caught that way.
Name and date of birth are mostly trivial to come by. You can look up modest details about almost anyone in the US for $20 or $50.
Suburban areas are typically classified as "rural routes" so they're required to have mailboxes on posts out by the curb. These days, a "rural route" is basically anything that isn't an older neighborhood inside a larger city.
Developers create residential subdivisions, incorporate a HOA, and ownership in the subdivision requires contracting with the HOA.
When I signed up for Geni, a few unstable relatives (avoided IRL) started fights on the message boards and it put me off the entire social family tree concept (the copious amounts of spam that Geni sent out didn't help, since many people lacked the computer savvy to opt-out, and it made them even more hostile).
My guess is that something similar happens with Nextdoor: you can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family, or your neighbors. In the case of LinkedIn, and Yammer, trolling is far less of a problem, because there can be consequences for misbehavior, and it is easy to unfriend someone on FB, or unfollow/block on Twitter.
Unless there was some way to control trolls and nutters, I wouldn't sign up for Nextdoor.
Also, in a decentralised network, it may be even harder to keep control over data. Example: It is easier to hold Google accountable for data in their servers than users of BitTorrent for their data.
But there's no point in showing ads in a decentralized network since the proceeds would belong to no one. Unless someone controls the client application/interface, but then it's not entirely decentralized.
There is a difference between "track you and show you ads" and just "show you ads." A print newspaper can show you ads.
> Example: It is easier to hold Google accountable for data in their servers than users of BitTorrent for their data.
Not really. If Google or Facebook has your data but your "friends" have access to it, your friends also have your data. They can copy it and keep it indefinitely. Removing the middle man doesn't reduce your own control, it only removes the middle man's control.
> There is a difference between "track you and show you ads" and just "show you ads." A print newspaper can show you ads.
And a federation of networks can get together and decide to share what data they have about you with each other.
> Not really. If Google or Facebook has your data but your "friends" have access to it, your friends also have your data. They can copy it and keep it indefinitely. Removing the middle man doesn't reduce your own control, it only removes the middle man's control.
Could you clarify this? I'm really not sure what you mean, sorry.
Federation means competition. You can choose providers you trust and who agree not to do that. Or you can run your own, which in a properly designed system shouldn't require more than some free software, a domain name and a machine to point it at. Which ordinary people might buy off the shelf as an appliance that plugs into your modem.
> Could you clarify this? I'm really not sure what you mean, sorry.
OK, so right now you have a funny cat video, so you upload it to YouTube and then post the link on Facebook. So Facebook can tell who you've shared the link with and who has clicked on it, YouTube can tell what you've uploaded and who has watched it, and anyone you've shared it with (or, in the absence of authentication, anyone in the world) can download it and save a copy on their hard drive.
In the alternative, you upload the funny cat video to some distributed CDN thing like Freenet or BitTorrent, and then your friends get the link in something that resembles an RSS reader that gets its feeds from something that distributes messages how email does.
So anyone you've shared the video with can still download it and keep it but there is nobody who has the complete list of everyone you've shared it with and there is no third party middle man who can keep track of everyone who is looking at it.
Whoever is doing the uploading can still tell who is downloading but presumably these are your friends who are not keeping permanent records rather than some corporation bent on converting every aspect of your personality into a data set for selling hotdogs and health insurance.
Should it ever grow big enough IETF, W3C, ECMA, ITU, ISO and the likes might be appropriate maintainers (depending on the details).
See SMTP, XMPP which are both federated.
That SMTP and XMPP exist are just more proof for the value of Facebook (and to be clear: I hate FB and don't have an account, but I still see that it has value). SMTP has massive amounts of users, likely more than FB, and yet FB still exists because SMTP . XMPP is a good protocol, and yet no one is using it because federation makes it too hard for these things to work in the market.
The idea with federated systems is that the standard body isn't _running_ the network. So no, I wouldn't expect W3C to run a social network, federated or not. Their own node, maybe.
However the sign up process for NextDoor seems hard, so friction might not be a good reason. It might be hard to keep sign up rigorous without a central vetting body though.
It's a little more complicated if you're billing addr is not your home addr (and you don't want to put in your credit card), but my guess would be that phone-number verification works in the 95% general case. Given how quick and easy sign-up is, I'd imagine that the friction argument is still rather relevant.
EDIT: Doesn't seem to work with my T-Mobile cellphone, so I'm guessing they have some arrangement with like some cell carriers?
Otherwise, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Federation_%28information_techn... for a general discussion.
Except, of course, running, maintaining and developing the thing, all of which are quite earthly.
> And it's a perfect example of a service that should be decentralized by design.
Except that would make it an order or two of magnitude more complicated, but that's irrelevant next to random people on the Internet armchair quarterbacking. And, of course, procuring a server and installing a node on it is much, much easier than just signing up on a website and inviting your neighbors. It's the perfect example, I can't think of any reason why they didn't do it that way. Oh, of course, advertising. That's it. Sorry, never mind me.
Nextdoor is killing Facebook.
Verge is killing journalism or what's left of it.
In reality Slack had only 150K users. Nextdoor is barely known outside of few neighbourhoods (sure, they can claim 1 in every 4 neighbourhood has "adopted" Nextdoor). Lot of articles from Verge getting posted here recently smells a lot like just paid PR stuff for startups. They are almost like informatials on late night TV. Take everything from them with huge pinch of salt.
This would be great if people were more active on NextDoor. I haven't seen too many neighborhoods in the Bay Area where it works beyond 4-5 active people.
The main feature I wouldn't mind having, if NextDoor has it, is a way to share tools and other things that I have with my neighbors. For example, I have some power tools, excellent specialized cooking gear, commercial juice press, bike repair stand, etc. and plan on buy a commercial vacuum sealer. All of these things are capital goods that are extremely useful but might spend a lot of their time used infrequently. Since these are going to be available to use a lot of the time I'm happy to lend them to a neighbor so long as I know they are going to come back to me in the same condition as they were lent. I just want a system where I can write down my expectations insofar as how I expect my things to be cared for and cleaned before returned, and how I can remedy issues and leave feedback like "3-stars b/c my stock pot came back dirty" or "5 stars b/c my stock pot came back cleaner than it was when I leant it".
Any Anti-Facebook service needs at least a good "News Feed" like Facebook does. EveryBlock had a really awesome and useful news feed. You'd see all the new permits(film locations, building, zoning, etc.) issued, crime reports, comments about community issues, events, etc. in your neighborhood. It was exactly what I thought of in terms of "hyperlocal" news. It was extremely useful even as a passive user.
NextDoor just isn't any of that. They don't have the same News Feed quality that EveryBlock had. NextDoor posts are like "I have a new Ikea desk I'm trying to get rid of" or "What's happening at 20th and Mission"-style Twitter posts. Not very informative or useful.
There's also a feed of "Nearby Neighborhoods" and a City Platform that feeds in alerts and information from police and local government.
It's literally everything you described and more.
EveryBlock had solved a good-"News Feed"-for-the-neighborhood problem. NextDoor has yet do that as effectively.
Not quite every block ... :-/
In other words, even their signup page contains a scam, designed to steal your friends list. And I'm supposed to trust this site with anything? Fuck no.
Then why the heck does it ask for a password?
If I use FB login, the primary benefit is not having to track another password.
I think your definition of scam is a bit off...because every app in the app store would be qualified as a "scam".
Anyway as I can see that you failed to read for comprehension I must reiterate that allowing next-door to read your Facebook profile in no way authenticates you to the site, nor does it provide them with your profile picture.
If you're the first person to login, the site will get an empty list. Only the set of your friends who have previously used the service, will show up if the service queries fb for your friends.
That was confusing and I considered stopping. I went through with it anyway, but that part was strange. Why do you do that?
I agree it's a good marker for "This site probably shouldn't be trusted with personal data" though.
I'm sure this is an exception, but I turned off email notifications when people started discussing how to insulate their apartments to protect themselves from wifi radiation.
It could be very helpful for local discussion, community awareness, emergency communication (if the access points are kept off the main grid) and possibly even direct democratic voting for small local issues.
Sort of like a PirateBox, but more sophisticated non-anonymous local private social network. Not entirely sure if the technology exists to allow this to scale affordably to at least a block or two.
which was created as a localized discussion and mapping platform that runs on wireless mesh networks (or any server setup)
Having your user registration broken when you get a positive article published about your service must really suck.
EDIT: Seems to be a chrome issue. Submitted a request to their support time. Safari seems to work just fine.
This seems incredibly intrusive and a big privacy ingress. No thanks.
This is actually a HUGE piece of what makes the social network special. This builds inherent trust into the network so you actually know that the people that you're talking to are actually who they say they are and actually live in your neighborhood.
This means that, if you're selling your couch, or buying something from a neighbor, you can be sure that it's trusted neighbor that you're interacting with.
This actually HELPS privacy rather than impeding it.
Nextdoor also cross references with sex offender databases as well as "some" criminal databases so that they are banned from joining. It's also a safety feature.
Ugh. Those things increase recidivism and violate fundamental concepts of justice by not allowing people to ever 'serve their debt to society'. If I can pass someone by on the sidewalk or walk by their house, I don't see why they should be banned from talking to me on such a network.
If they're released, it generally implies they no longer pose a threat, and are monitored if not the case.
http://www.businessinsider.com/surprising-things-that-could-...
>Assuming those people are actual, proven, and unanimously agreed upon sex offenders
How do you prove this to the computer? Have a representative manually handle every case with a sex offender to see if someone is too perverted to join their network? Surely that's a PR nightmare. "Well he had sex with a 17 year old girl, so we're fine with him joining. But a 10 year old boy, that's where we draw the line."
The list of sex offenders is more than just a list of child molesters. Public urination or indecency and anything in between goes on there. All of them are bad to a certain degree, some of them terrible. But if someone has served their time, we should not continue punishing them, but give them a chance to reform.
The thing that bothered me is that I had no indication as to the value prior to signing up. I had no way to know whether my neighborhood had active, thriving, productive discussions or whether it was a ghost town. I had no way to know if it was healthy or full of gossip. This is the down side to it being private.
It was tough because our area is fairly low density and they require a minimum number of households to set up a neighborhood. I didn't want to include a couple of developments where they really weren't in the same demographic as the neighborhood I was setting up. I did some gerrymandering to make it work.
Now Nextdoor is including comments and posts from all of the surrounding neighborhoods, which is really annoying because I don't really care about what is going on over there and would just as soon not have them tracking what is going on over here.
Hmpf.
You can verify your address to prove you are local and subscribe to local area conversations and news etc... Just like in life the communities are mixed - some more involved than others but I've found it a great resource so far.
Any open-source alternative I could set up ? A small diaspora/facebook clone ?
If a small minority of Leads can prevent people they don't like from joining, it seems like it risks reinforcing bigotry and intolerance.
Oddly recently she's been getting requests to expand the neighborhood area as people just outside the edges seem to want to join.
I'm curious about features and UI implementation. Thanks
FD: I'm involved with Spiral.
Found it funny as hell.