Yes it is. The vast majority of Bitcoin services and users wait for only 1 confirmation. Waiting for 6 confirmations is "excellent" whereas 1 confirmation is "good enough" (when was the last time we saw a Bitcoin double spend attempt? Never!). But arguing whether 1 confirmation is good enough is a moot point. Bitcoin competes with traditional international payment systems where it is common for transfers to post in 1-3 days especially across weekends or bank holidays ("post" has a specific definition, look it up). So even waiting for 6 confirmations makes Bitcoin faster than traditional systems.
On the other point, true, many people rely on 1 exchange, or place their coins in 1 online wallet service, which makes them vulnerable to incidents typically affecting centralized systems. But this is not a problem inherent to Bitcoin. Not at all. This is solved by educating users, by new services (eg. hardware wallets like Trezor), and by "natural selection" (eg. people who lost coins on MtGox tend to learn their lessons, weak exchanges die, secure ones remain in use, merchants can very easily use multiple Bitcoin processors at once, etc).