Extreme steel 'Velcro' takes a 35-tonne load
newscientist.com
newscientist.com
The last innovative steel-related thing that caught my eye was ConXtech's Portable Tower at Burning Man 2008 (see http://www.theportabletower.com/ for a video on how they built a 10-story tower in 3 days using compression joints)
Think about the most common application of velcro - shoes - you're keeping the two sides of the shoe together. Velcro prevents the two surfaces from sliding around, not from coming apart.
So you only need a 7.1 tonne weight.
fun fact: the Firefox spell-checker knows that Velcro is a trademark, and must be capitalized. Obey the spell-checker. ("Firefox" is also).