It's easy to see why "don't call me, I'll call you" leads to unreadable code. A piece of code is readable if you can understand how it works, not just what it does, and a big part of "how it works" is figuring out the control flow. Inverted control flow makes code less readable, regardless of any other benefits it might have.
Viewed in that light, it's hard to see how moving to better languages like Haskell would solve the problem. Functional programmers pass functions around all the time, so a lot of functional "libraries" are actually frameworks that insist on calling your code in complicated ways, making it conform to very precise types required by the framework. There's certainly no shortage of abstraction in Haskell code. As a result, it seems that most Haskell programmers don't even try to understand the control flow of their programs, because it's almost impossible.
I wonder if we could have a principled approach to programming that discourages the "don't call me, I'll call you" pattern, and encourages code that you can simply read from top to bottom. Do this thing, then do that thing, then do the other thing. It would probably be unlike anything that exists in academia today.