First, it's great to hear taking the SSRI helped!
Regarding the diagnosis of IBS, What I'm saying is, I've yet to have had (or seen) a test that definitively states "yes, you have IBS".
During my time with stomach issues I've been tested for UC, Crohns disease, Celiac disease and gluten sensitivity. All the bloodwork and whatever else came back with definitive nos.
Once all of those were ruled out, then the diagnosis became "IBS". Meaning, I didn't take a test that said I had IBS, I was symptomatic and all the actual tests they could run were negative, and hence, I had IBS by default.
What that meant to me was, something is wrong, they just don't know what it is, I should keep searching and trying things to figure out what they don't understand.
I've read so many posts where people get diagnosed with IBS, take the prescribed drugs, and just suffer for the rest of their lives. I just want people to understand they should feel empowered not to settle for the IBS diagnosis and explore options to try and solve the issue for themselves (like you did via SSRI).