Don't Shop Your Term Sheet
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A small number of VC’s have a real value add. I would not shop Sequoia's term sheet, but a second tier VC has little to leverage other than cash.
OTOH, if you're not hot, they will use any lame excuse to walk, and you won't have anything to 'shop' in the first place, other than warm fuzzy talk at the end of an expensive lunch.
It boils down to "shopping your terms verbally is fine, just don't flash your actual physical term sheet around town."
Also, don’t shop a verbal offer.
His overall sentiment is not necessarily without merit (that you should shop around terms/valuation verbally rather than emailing out copies of the term sheet to every VC on Sand Hill Road) but wow did he go about expressing it poorly.
What are you supposed to say, "I have a very good feeling VC X might offer me 4, so you are going to have to offer 5." You can't haggle unless you have concrete alternatives to push the price up.
My understanding is, shop around, but, don't say it as "shop around". Use other languages or excuses.
http://venturehacks.com/articles/shop-around
This is the summary:
Summary: A deal is only as good as its best alternative. Keep improving your alternatives until you have a signed term sheet. And keep developing your current offers or they will die. Finally, don’t say "shopping around", it puts investors off their stroke.