Have you done that on purpose?
Anyway, in the off chance you aren't intending to do an awesome display of irony:
- People can be reasonable, but they are bad at knowing when they are and aren't.
- Empathy is not applying someones situation to yourself, but instead applying yourself to someones situation (This is non-commutative).
- Empathy can help reason but is not required by it.
I'm not really suggesting anything controversial so I'm surprised at your adversarial responses. It's almost like we are just stuck in a "Someone is wrong on the internet" loop here.