Considering the time and space scales involved, it's hard for me to believe we have enough data for a conclusion either way, particularly without assuming faster than light travel and also given the 'youth' of the universe. Even if we did assume faster than light travel, it seems like you'd have to have insane levels of population growth to make it all that far from home without going very very slowly. And if you do start moving out, would it really be worth trying to signal home if it would take 1000 years or 100 years to reach 'home?'
Another issue I have is what I'd term anthropological environmental constraints as applied to aliens, namely it's quite conceivable that some home worlds would not offer the resources needed to make it into space, or would contain them in an inaccessible way. If a race of Einstein-like aliens is stuck on the a planetary equivalent of a desert island we'll never hear from them.
As far as the self replicating robots go, I see two issues: first, it should still be pretty slow without light speed travel, and second, if these robots don't have a realistic chance of reporting back to their source civilization, why would the civilization even bother? (We can barely understand the ancient Maya. When a robot returns after 30 million years, this problem seems like it'd only be exacerbated. Likewise, the time horizon is so far out it'd be unlikely a particular group would see an ROI argument to attempt it other than as a hobby.)
So I really feel like it's a bit premature to draw conclusions about the 'Fermi Paradox.'