Life is funny like that.
Life is funny like that.
You could hypothesize things are likely to be that way because there is no rational purpose to life - you do some stuff then die. If anything you could say a successful life is one where you enjoyed the ride which may be maximised by doing what feels right. I guess.
Some people feel that way. For some - in the end deep emotional reason, I don't _want_ it to be that way for myself. Even though I probably have more pain that way, going through life.
Also, if you are a member of a privileged group, you may well have the luxury of just doing what you feel. You also may or may not be insulated from some of the consequences.
Am I a member of a privileged group?
That said, gut feel has always guided me very well when I have incomplete information. I always have incomplete information.
Usually what people mean when they say "I don't have a choice" is actually "The probability and cost of catastrophic failure are too high to be worth it".