If you are hung up on the fact that lemurs still exist, use the word prosimians instead.
you sound pretty confident that chickens are not dinosaurs
That's because I'm pretty confident that this:
http://scienceblogs.com/gregladen/chicken.jpg
is not this:
http://domz60.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/dinosaur.jpg
If you really need something to prove that, I think we are dealing with bigger problems than can ever be resolved within this discussion.
They are certainly related however, and even a layman can see this even without looking at the evolutionary hip structure. That said they are far enough apart that calling a bird a dinosaur is the same as calling you a lemur.