Whether the actions of the Rakudo developers indeed did cause a major Parrot exodus is something I'll easily cede at this point. Whether that was intended, unintended or the opposite of what was intended seems to be what we are really talking about here (because I believe intention can matter, not in assignment of blame, but as possible mitigation of scale).
The irony of this is that Parrot seems to now well and truly be a P6 focused VM, as the only work done on it (besides rurban and util) is by Rakudo devs to fix bugs or make small changes to new Rakudo stuff works. Why rurban still bothers is beyond me, AIUI he's still got p2 to work on.
In any case, you've been more than a good sport in humoring me in all this; you put up with more from me than I would have imagined. Thanks!