I hear ya. And that's where I think some people have gotten lulled by the Raspberry Pi when it comes to these boards.
IMO there's a difference between true eval/dev boards and the (for lack of a better word) devices that are following along the lines of the RPi.
Dev boards used to be large expensive things that did require NDAs and a healthy business relationship with a chipmaker and local FAE. Could you afford the $4K for an OMAP1 eval board? I couldn't.
I'm glad to see some of that stuff come back down to earth, especially now that the big players are cooperating with more-open projects like Beagle/Panda and SABRE. And they're at least following it up with a more open attitude when it comes to documentation, drivers/kernel branches, and online support.