If you don't do the things that people are writing about, then they aren't talking about you.
You should read http://bitchtopia.com/2013/07/11/not-all-men-are-like-that/.
You should read http://bitchtopia.com/2013/07/11/not-all-men-are-like-that/.
s/oppressing/any other negative behavior/g
"Having to point out that not every black steals allows for robbery to continue because having to say “some blacks are thieves” gives blacks peace of mind. "