This post and zed shaw's tweets on the same subject are so stark in contrast.I think I finally understand why zed shaw is so unloved by many. It is because of lack of respect for someone else's choices.
Edit: http://twitter.com/zedshaw/status/3412128128
_why preached "peace & love" and "ruby's nice" and then the second he's outed he rips down gear people depend on. He's a dick.
http://zedshaw.com/blog/2009-07-13.html
"I believe that whatever the author wants to do with his or her works is their right. They wrote it, despite everyone telling them it wouldn’t work. They slaved over it rather than going out with friends. They debugged it, and wrote documentation for it so everyone else could use it. They may have even spent a part of their time promoting it and helping people with it. All for free, and for whatever reason they choose."