>You can't lure a client with your looks >And if instead, you just want to pin all the blame on men for being pigs and expect them to change, well good luck with that.
It's perfectly reasonable to expect men to not commit sexual assault in the workplace. What world are you living in where anything like this is remotely acceptable?
I'll show you what I mean:
>If you are an attractive woman and want to do business under such potential circumstance, then your best bet is to try to make yourself look unattractive.
This is the exact same kind of victim blaming as in "She was asking for it". He's telling women to make themselves look unattractive, implying that they are partially to blame for their own harassment because of what they were wearing, or how they looked. Saying "well, it's bound to happen" isn't good enough.
>You can't have it both ways.
>And if instead, you just want to pin all the blame on men for being pigs and expect them to change, well good luck with that.
These two quotes both show that he really is talking about harassment and assault. The OP article wasn't talking about relatively harmless (if inappropriate) workplace flirting; some couples meet at work. That happens. The difference is that those kind of things generally begin with very subtle signals over an extended period of time. The context of this article, this thread, and implicitly this comment (by explicitly agreeing that women are asking for this harassment to stop) is one of harassment and assault.
>You can't lure a client with your looks and then always expect totally platonic behavior from them.
>Mother Nature quite clearly has other designs.
I don't need to break this down. It's so shitty.
People are attracted to all kinds of things. Go out to a big box store in an unfashionable suburb some weekend and look at the couples walking around. It's not as if The Real America is living in a PUA utopia where only attractive people find a mate. All kinds of facial and body types are walking around with each other.
If people can pair with unconventional types, they find them attractive enough. Some people will harass what they find attractive. Therefore some people will harass non-conventionally attractive people.
Which is a long way of saying, by no means will conventionally attractive women be the only ones to find themselves receiving such harassment.
This pretty much defeats the purpose of the rest of your comment.
>and confident men are going to act on their desires.
What do we mean by "act on their desires?"[0] There is enough ambiguity to drive a rather alarming truck through.
[0] http://www.hackcanada.com/canadian/zines/spacemoose/take_bac...