1) Blockchains are not as fast as centralized databases.
This is true in the same way that a democracy can't act as fast as a dictatorship. Blockchains are important because they allow a large number of strangers to trade with each other, to exchange value, free from centralized control, corruption and skimming. Millisecond response times would be nice, but that's a secondary feature.
2) The first people to mine or invest in a new cryptocurrency can be far wealthier than those who come later.
How is this different or worse than the status quo? Those who invest their time, money and ingenuity in a risky project reap rewards if it succeeds.
3) Centralized authority is required for arbitration and reversing transactions.
This assumption is exactly what blockchains and cryptocurrencies are testing. Can people exchange value freely, without a central authority that skims unearned value for itself? Can we enforce complex agreements without submitting to a power that stifles innovation?
The final chapter hasn't yet been written, but the experiment looks very promising so far.