Ebola is actually too aggressive. It tends to kill and incapacitate people so quickly that they don't have time to spread it to others.
The biggest reason we haven't seen larger-scale outbreaks of EVD/EHF is that previous outbreaks have been in geographically remote areas, and that doctors are stomping on it with full force whenever an outbreak occurs. The outbreak going on right now disproves the theory that Ebola just burns itself out quickly.
That explanation just has way better press.