taking the discussion out of the opinion level to a more factual level(eg. i like the boot speed of my archlinux machine but the whole consolekit(why did we get that to begin with ?)/logind/ridiculousness, logging and service files vs. startx and grep /var/log is annoying to say the least, but as i said subjective)
on a factual level we have ridiculous bugs specifically caused by systemd that take down your system, and the lead developers saying either i don't care or it's by design. let me bring a few examples:
https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=76935
> That is the expected current behaviour, "debug" can cause "too many" messages to be useful anymore if things are broken.
or this one, systemd segfaulting with cgroups off:
https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=74589
Lennart:
> To make this work we'd need a patch, as nobody of us tests this.
There were a few other recent ones. When your new init system consistently takes down your operating syste, because of stupid bugs, and the lead developers say we don't care, and even block efforts to fix these issues, you should indeed worry.
https://plus.google.com/111049168280159033135/posts/Kd57G8s1...
In fact Greg KH jumped in to play daddy, and wrote a patch where tom gunderson commented that that patch would not be merged as it's not clear what problem it solves.
edit: some say openrc is the one. here's a comparison:
https://wiki.gentoo.org/wiki/Talk:Comparison_of_init_systems