AFAICT, none of this happened here. A very small number of organizations was told in advance, but nobody knows what the criteria were to get on this special advance notice list. Given how completely off-guard some really big organizations were caught (yahoo, for instance; all the linux distros, etc), this could have been handled a lot better.
The reality is that the open source community isn't vetted like an intelligence agency when it comes to holding secrets to their vest. It only takes one person in all those OSS communities to leak to the press about something of this magnitude and then the result could be even worse. The fact that this was kept under wraps for 12 days (that we know) is a testament to the folks who made the decision whom to inform.