The point of my extension was to provide thought to the offhand comment. It is a form of comment-art.
Rape is not cute or small or some expression of freedom. It is gravely serious and offensive to 50%+ of the population and a massive turn-off to women and girls who might love programming... They were hiring at the OP's company. Do you want your mother/sister/daughter working there?
Re-Bro-purposing of language like this serves the purpose of opening discussion around underlying social issues. If you don't want to have a mature discussion around sexual violence and its institutional/professional impacts, don't use the words that suggest sexual violence is a humorous, normal thing 'you' like to do to compilers or people.
Bro's can continue to say and think these things. We all love freedom of expression. What's wonderful in this branch is that the discussion is not about compile-time raytracing. Get famous for being technically astute, not socially inept.