I think your claim requires some elaboration. How about some concrete examples?
Fundamentally you have a seat at the table, and you're the only person in the room who can actually solve the problem. Since you're an engineer and your brain has already weeded out all the things that won't work because of technical reasons you can quickly zero in on and propose a solution, also you're the 'expert' so you have the opportunity to not say anything and actually hear what everyone else is saying.
To paraphrase the video if you can say something like "I propose we put together a triangle with two red lines and a blue line" and then draw that on the board, you're a hero.
"Would you like me to draw a kitten using only 7 red lines that, where they cross, are perpendicular?"