The Eighth Meditation on Superweapons and Bingo
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When people communicate with others who hold very similar worldviews, there's a lot of mutual tacit knowledge that needn't be explicitly referenced because it can be easily and reliably inferred. But so often when we discuss or debate something with someone or an audience which we know holds views radically opposing our own, we don't realize that it's the tacit knowledge or perspective which is likely more important than the summarization of the common or official arguments & tenets.
I like to think of this tacit or 'unseen' rationalization structure as the matrix of graphite that supports the fine point at the end of a pencil.
At least on matters of (a)theism, by far the only (famous) atheist I've seen who actually knows how debate without using tacit knowledge and can actually understand the opponents views and debate them on that level was Christopher Hitchens.
I mean that if he wants to make people see how the scientific method is vastly superior to religion, I don´t see that pushing them and calling them "dumb" (not literally, but you can feel that´s what he is thinking) is not having just the opposite result, and is making creationists more active in their positions.
Beyond that, the scientific method is not vastly superior (morally?) to religion. The one is a system for examining that which is discoverable while the other attempts to relate to that which is not. In other words, they are orthogonal.
w/r to today's feminism and sj, it's the norm to get called out provided you are active for long enough. This is not entirely bad, but it does reflect the ease with which post-structural theory can be weaponized.
Nobody's argument can survive a "deconstruction". I don't just mean, nobody can convince anyone in the presence of deconstruction, I mean, the argument itself can not survive.
I think it comes from post-structuralism. Words lose their meaning in post-structuralism. All discourse is about power, not truth, because truth is not possible to determine, even in principle. So these people are not interested in having a reasonable conversation. They don't think it's even possible to have one. They're interested in winning the battle of words, and only that, because they think that that's what all conversation is.
Let's have a look at the article again, then:
If you are like everyone else on the Internet, your immediate response is "Whoever is saying that is obviously a racisty racist who loves racism! I can't believe he literally used the 'I'm not racist, but...' line in those exact words! The old INRB! I've got to get home as fast as I can to write about this on my blog and tell everyone I really met one of those people!"
If a man thinks parts of the reason why some men are jerks toward women is because women actually are more likely to date jerks than people who are respectful, she can gleefully declare "You're a Nice Guy (TM) and therefore Worse Than Hitler (TM)!" and point and laugh.
If those are indeed both truly representative and real anecdotes, feel free to correct me, but otherwise I don't see how they are more than just shallow strawmen.
> also consider that your comment might be an example of exactly what he's complaining about!
I did consider that, but I personally think that that it isn't, so maybe you could give me a hint as to how my comment embodies any of the tendencies described in the article.
Consider that asking me to consider these things could be a way for you to suggest that they are true without having to resort to actual reasoning.
Both examples seem really common to me, although slightly exaggerated for comic effect.
It's extremely easy to find people who dismiss everything said after "INR,B" as racist — for instance, on Urban Dictionary whatever is said after it is DEFINED as racist: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=i%27m%20not%2....
(I'll happily agree that very many things said after "INR,B" ARE racist, but it also seems obvious to me that if you have an actual non-racist point to make, lots of people are going to dismiss it if you start with "INR,B".)
I'm very curious how many people are avoiding commenting simply because they're terrified of being dragged into an internet pissing match.
Sexism/women in tech is basically the Afghanistan of topics. No-one has ever prevailed and you won't either. The only way to win is not to play. I wish it wasn't like that, but it is.
Here I'm talking not to you specifically, but the generic vocal male "you":
If you have a strong urge to share your opinion, consider where that impulse is coming from. Pause and absorb what's actually being said. Mull it over. It might sting a little bit, but you might also gain a new perspective.
If you're male and privileged, it's hard to think about what it's really like to be not male or not privileged. You can try, but you can't know.
If you've ever observed the dynamic of conversation, it can be uncomfortable to see how men and women are (typically) socialized to interact together.
I have rarely seen women talk over men in the same way as the reverse.
[And yes, I realize that I am not taking my own advice here]
People are not robots; their feelings matter. But they're the worst possible route to the truth, and thus to effective action to redress injustices. A nice illustration is provided, in fact, by this little exchange - so the GP feels scared to get involved with debates on the women's question. It's perfectly legitimate to argue that men have more power and are socialised in certain ways, etc; but this man's (if it is a man) emotional response will not take that into account. People are as emotionally traumatised by bad break-ups as they are by amputations. The human emotional response has no sense of perspective, and never will. When we discuss matters such as sexism, we are necessarily discussing the greater public good - which has to be indifferent to such things. (For example, we do not allow the relatives of murder victims to determine the sentence of the perpetrators - for good reason.)
So arguments get personalised - eg, "Julie Ann Horvath is lying" vs "Julie Ann Horvath would not lie about this" - and thus depoliticised.
All this "you can't know what it's like" stuff, if it were followed absolutely, simply makes reasoned argument impossible. Indeed, I can't know what it's like. But if everything is reduced to 'what it's like', then my only possible response is to shut up - or to browbeat an interlocutor into doing so. I cannot convince anyone to have different feelings. I can convince people that their arguments, on the basis of logical consistency or empirical evidence, are erroneous - but only if we can collectively agree to forget about everyone's feelings.
And so you end up in topsy turvy world. A classic example:
> If you have a strong urge to share your opinion, consider where that impulse is coming from.
So now the opinionated are supposed to feel guilty about it! It's utterly bizarre. More people should share their opinions (including racists, sexists and suchlike); they should not shut up on the off-chance it might make people feel better about themselves. Otherwise those opinions will go unchallenged, and fester in the dark.
I'd be one. I typically only engage a popular repetitive internet arguments when I can make a solid point at the fringe and then back way. Even if I agree with someone's conclusion but want to point out that a piece of their argument doesn't carry water, it can turn into a disaster. The issue are just too hotbutton to bother.
Another common pitfall (I think anyways) is that some of these drives to extremes are driven at least partly out of a sense of the current 'threshold' being placed far too far away from where they 'should' be. Large disparities create large pressures. Coupled with wanting to see things change soon (obviously), and that people have an intuitive motion that if you try to push against something to reach X, you'll probably end up with X-1 or something, you can at least kind of understand some of the drive to extremes.
Chill out everyone!