The way it works with us is I usually make the technical decisions with my tech partner in my mind. Yes there are times we run into disagreements but they are discussed and resolved UNLESS you make disagreements a personal thing in which case you might as well part ways with your team.
Right now I just need a really good flash developer, and maybe another super tech if they could contribute alot. I haven't been able to find one yet, but still have a few leads..