I'm a bit hesitant to take life advice from a thrice divorced alcoholic.
An author's personal life is not indicative of their wisdom, or perspective. After all this life is simply a variety of events that just happen, all of which can't be perfect, or just the way you want. Life is just the way it is, and you, as a human being, are molded around it. Cognitively that's how a human being works, we learn, and we grow. See it for what life is, and go with it. After a while you'll develop your own perspective from wherever you stand.
But that's just the way I see things...
Alcoholism is very much a disease.
Do you hesitate to take advice from people with cardiovascular disease?