> The problem with older founders... your needs are different (financial burdens, children etc) which makes it more difficult to succeed.
This is an interesting point and one that I've seen multiple people bring up over time on HN. Often as first hand feedback from the person with a family. Financial obligations are more. No doubt. When I started my first company I lived off of a few hundred dollars a month (personally) and put everything else into the company.
And your point about "eating ramen" is too true.
In my experience, founding a company in my 20's, early 30's and doing one again in my late 30's is that finding a big opportunity is equally hard at any age. I don't see that getting any easier. However, what I do differently now is that that I'm infinitely more disciplined. I talk to customers earlier, I spend less time on building a prototype (6 weeks to 12 weeks max), and am willing to kill an idea as soon as I realize that its not going to get me to my goal.
What I'd be interested in seeing are stats on the success of 30+ founders who are on a 2nd/3rd startup vs. 1st time founders who are 30+. My guess is these two groups would diverge widely, but that's just a guess.
Importantly, I find some parts of starting a company much easier at this age.
First, and perhaps most importantly, my wife and I have committed to the startup lifestyle (not a lifestyle business per say, but to pursuing opportunities to grow our net worth). We openly discuss our goals. We have been together through 2 companies, so we know how much of a pain this one will be. We are in agreement that the costs of building a new company are worth the potential to take us to the next level financially. I find this is where many people think that starting a company after marriage is more difficult. However, I have seen that being married can lighten your load as a founder if you and your spouse agree on who will carry what load. One of my friend's had the same conversation with his wife. She's starting a company, and he's pulling a huge load at home. So the same advice works for both men and women.
In terms of distractions, I have way less of them now than when I was younger. Everyone I know is busy with family and kids, so there is little pressure to hang out and waste time.
This is totally personal experience/opinion, but kids have been a boon to my startup work. There's no way to explain it except to say that spending time with my daughters is calming. Stress be damned.
Maybe its just me, but I find the 20 year olds of today exceptionally capable. I am super impressed with how good the younger generations are. They are focused, motivated, capable. I find this beneficial both because I have now have experience, but there is an entire younger generation who are wonderful to speak with, learn from, and work with.
The financial aspects of starting a company now are a world easier. Without diving into detail, its a cake walk now. I don't starve. I know to expect losses on some ideas. I've had enough failures and some successes to know that sometimes ideas and companies fail, and sometimes they succeed.
In summary, your point is well taken. It's definitely different.