You left out a crucial part of that sentence.
> implementation that people write on their own
> and then at least, there is an established syntax
> and a way to improve it further.
That was the point.
Being aware of the problem doesn't mean you'll actually find a good solution. At least this way, any lingering problems will eventually be fixed instead of draining more of your own resources. Chances are, the Postgres team will be able to figure out the subtleties much better than you.
The more domain knowledge your system requires, the worse off everybody is. Here's a story.
At my previous company, I implemented something close to 'upsert'. After hours of researching, implementing, and testing in as many environment I could think of, I wondered why I wasted so many hours trying to get it right. Sure, I now understand the subtleties involved. (Well, I think so anyway. I still don't know what I don't know.) But am I better off now? Is the company? Not really. What we have is a tangled hack.
And worse, I no longer work with this company. So the next guy will have to figure out what's going on when there's an issue. To be safe, I spent another day re-organizing the code for clarity and documenting the complicated workaround. A scrappy syntax shipped today and fixed tomorrow would have been ideal. That way, the new guy could search for the symptom and see that that the current implementation of UPSERT is the cause. They can then use a recommended workaround, or simply upgrade Postgres to fix it entirely.