"It's not Unix" is no longer a valid critique. The old Unix design philosophy is dead. People want systems of components that function as an integrated whole. They do NOT want pieces that are generally unaware of each other (this is touted as the virtue of "loose coupling").
Yes, pid 1 does a lot. That's by necessity. It's not your grandpap's Unix anymore. Do you want to control all the system services, including the "badly behaved" ones? That functionality needs to be in pid 1. Do you want to bring the system up safely and sanely, accounting for things like hotplugged disks in /etc/fstab? That functionality needs to be in pid 1. Systemd is the correct design for modern Linux. It also brings the advantage of better integration and greater commonality across distros.