So for question 1. It's about power. The relationship between you and "the company" is different if you are an employee versus a founder. As an employee, you aren't legally deserving of access to financial information, like cash flow. Or board meetings. At the end of the day, all that really matters is the legal paperwork and that will be different if you are a founder and not an employee (stock for employees, or options, are always mostly worthless). And as a founder, you get access to any profit, but you wouldn't as an employee. And as a founder, you would have far more of a say in how the company is run than you ever would as even employee #1
So if you are --sure-- you have a good relationship with these other people, and that they are not professional sociopaths like those I dealt with, then I'd say you could have a case to be considered as an founder. You say you are helping them with research etc - to what extent, how much, etc?
OTOH, how much responsibility do you want to have, in legal terms, and otherwise? Being a founder would require more - more complex taxes, etc, and more of a concern over how the company is run and where it is going. What do you think your role in the organization might be? I was effectively the CTO, but because I "wasn't", I didn't really have the power that comes with the title. And I was so caught up in doing the actual work, and I didn't complain enough about the overwork, that I left all these non-tangible non-technical considerations slide - and at the end of the day, if you are intimately connected to the founding of a company, these intangibles are a lot more important than anything else, including money.
To be paranoid, what if you sign on as an employee, and things go south? Can you walk away without any attachment to this company you've helped build? To what extent are you willing to play dirty hardball if the relationship goes bad? It'd be easier if you have the legal status that being a founder offers. Run all contracts past a lawyer and play "what if" scenarios to make sure you are not caught flatfooted.
I took the hard road; it was all a severe crash course in how business actually is done, versus the blather about 'company values' and 'ethics' and that nonsense. Some people are nothing but more than scoundrels and so make sure you are sure you have evaluated the character of these people thoroughly before getting into a relationship with them. I wish you luck and hope you don't go down the road I did.