Apparently blaming the victim is totally okay as long as the victim was using a brand you don't like.
Apparently blaming the victim is totally okay as long as the victim was using a brand you don't like.
Two, calling this victim blaming is a bit of a stretch at best and ridiculous nonsense at worst. Yes, what happened to OP is unfortunate but it's just a moderate inconvenience. It's not like someone drove their car over him or smashed his face in with a bat (he'll get over this much easier). The person you replied to therefore is not wishing serious ill will on him. They are simply saying they hope this mild inconvenience is enough to wake him (and others) up to the necessity of free software.
> is enough to wake him (and others) up to the necessity of free software. What free software was he and everyone he's communicated with in the past 5 years supposed to be aware of?
I call BS. If OP choose free software we could AS WELL have had the same exact problem.
It's a software bug -- the client caching the remote method to use (data or standard SMS). A free program could just as well have the same issue.
What "more control" you'd have? You could issue a bug fix request, which could just as well be ignored (I've several on FOSS projets). Or you could even have it fixed, but then you'd need to convince all the users you talk to to update to the latest version until you see any improvement.
The difference here is that a sufficiently competent person cannot reliably replicate the experience.