Sorry but that's not true at all. DKIM keys, spf records and gmail: https://support.google.com/mail/answer/81126?hl=en
Recent Exim exploit: http://www.exploit-db.com/exploits/25970/
Dovecot exploit: https://www.rapid7.com/db/modules/exploit/linux/smtp/exim4_d...
I found a few Sendmail exploits as well but nothing from this year. Sure this stuff is easy to install but there is a reason managed email exists.